In His Own Words
About Him
i love people alot in my life.
iam a faithful man,honest and peaceful
i like to meet new people in my life
i love my GOD a lot
i love my family
About His Ideal Match
i like to have a good relationship with anyone who are available for me in my life and faithfully with me
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
Congo, Dem. Rep. of | |
Location: |
Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
34 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
Ask me later | |
Body Type: |
Ask me later | |
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Black | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; French; Portuguese; Spanish; Swahili; Tsonga; Tswana; Venda; Zulu; Other | |
Religion: |
Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
25 - 45 | ||
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | ||
Height: |
141cm (4' 7.5") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Other | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner | ||
Hair Colour: |
Other | ||
Eye Colour: |
Black | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Black/African; Coloured; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed; Black/Caribbean | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English; French; Portuguese; Spanish; Swahili; Tsonga; Tswana; Venda; Zulu | ||
Religion: |
Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
Yes; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College | ||
Occupation: |
Self-employed | ||
Income: |
Enough |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Smooth |
HIV Status: |
Negative |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
I don't have one |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Moody; Naive; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Outspoken; Pessimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Silly; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Latin; Muzak; New Age; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Religious; Romance; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
Movie Frequency: |
It's a weekly ritual |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Board games; Business news; Card games; Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gambling; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Knitting; Making Music; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Sewing; Shopping; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Writing books; Writing poetry; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
A regular competitor |
Sports: |
Aerobics; American Football; Archery; Athletics; Aussie Rules Football; Backgammon; Badminton; Baseball; Basketball; Birdwatching; Body building; Bodyboarding; Bowling; Bowls; Boxing; Bungee jumping; Camping; Canoeing; Chess; Cricket; Curling; Cycling; Dancesport; Darts; Extreme sports; Fencing; Field Hockey; Fishing; Flying / Gliding; Golf; Gymnastics; Handball; Hang- / Paragliding; Hiking; Horse Riding; Hunting; Ice Hockey; Ice Skating; Inline / Roller skating; Lacrosse; Martial arts; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Orienteering; Polo; Pool; Rock climbing; Rowing; Rugby; Running; Sailing; Scuba diving; Shooting; Skiing; Sky diving; Snooker; Snorkeling; Snowboarding; Soccer; Softball; Squash; Surf skiing/kayaking; Surfing; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Triathlon; Volleyball; Walking; Water Polo; Water skiing; Weight training; White water rafting; Wrestling |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Exercising |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Dream Home: |
House in the suburbs |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
At home with a good book |
Feelings about using Gay Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed; Optimistic; Excited; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Almost |
